This is because its easier to burn fat after a bulk, and having surplus calories will make it easier to build and preserve muscles to increase the metabolic rate during sleep, which will eventually lead to weight loss. If that changes which I personally doubt you can make another decision later. I've blown past every milestone we've set, she has a heavy hand when it comes to feeding. 20 years later she has passed 325 pounds and still slowly gaining, we both love her size. Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. She has known she's a type 2 diabetic for 4 years, and suspects she had been diabetic for years before that, but she's an addicted feedee and insists on continuing to eat what she wants and regularly having me feed her until she is simply too full to eat another bite. No it's not the only one - but it's a pretty big one! She says she doesn't care how fat she gets, so the number doesn't matter. He always puts us first and works really hard. Also have a foot fetish and love me some meaty BBW feet.BBW fans also seem to really love my wife and her feet. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. She was maybe 120and has gained maybe 15 or so. My parents. I guess because it came from someone else. Had a lot of naughty meetings too as a result - guys coming to enjoy her and play. poke his belly! And the gain has been all over, so its not like it looks odd to be 20 pounds heavier. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. Now she saggy and I'm kinda lost interest. Sometimes I would require him to keep eating in the bedroom. I love his growing cute little (for now) belly. Thats some dedicated stuffing. But I do plan on fattening him up after the wedding date to keep other ladies away. I m not so sure its a fetish for everyone. My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Watching someone gain weight and move from size to size is alluring. I loved his new body. Now my motivation is gonebecause of her and I really hope to get it back. When we first met I told him that I weighed 175, but it was much closer to 200, maybe a little more. She had dieted down from around 400 for her wedding day and after we were married she told me that she hated every minute of the diet and that not being able to eat her favorite fattening foods was like torture. Awww, does someone need their bloated belly rubbed? But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. Over the years shes put on 100 pounds. No, instead of focusing on cutting, nutritionists recommend bulking up for people with skinny fat to avoid additional health complications. Yeah, I gained during the pandemic, then added to that. I like my men very chubby, so I kept feeding him up. Morris McLennan as a kid. My beautiful wife was never a waif. I also say "Your b.o.o.b.s are bigger than mine!" No I take partial responsibility. If you try again and he continues to be defensive about this or wont take any steps to care for himself, then, OK, you have a new problem. Its fun to have great food and enjoy moments with delicious food! And weight is one of the most sensitive appearance-related topics of all. Its not my hubby getting fat, its me!! You cant really notice when Im wearing clothes, especially in the winter. I'm afraid he'll think I've been up to something to no good this whole time, when it's mostly just me appreciating his body. Ensure that your husband has at least a 10% of caloric surplus, which means he should take in more calories than what he burns in a day, which will lead to more muscle mass and fat gain. Its not just the physical appearance that bugs me, its the difference in lifestyle that's getting to me. Hes up 30 pounds and Im up 22 pounds. It's not my place to be mad if he wants to less eat or drink fewer sodas. Why fight it? =( I am afraid my attraction to him may decrease if he gets skinny again. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. You just need to find one that's cool with being fat. Its a dream come true for you, isnt it? I tell him he's gorgeous and perfect. My ever-fattening belly is a testimony of how well I clean my plate and often get additional helpings so the food is not wasted. Later she will humiliate me for the pig I have become while loving the control she has over my feeding weakness. Whether it is actresses blowing up after pregnancy or menopause or billionaires with bulging bellies inflating with fat. His legs and arms are still quite lean. I'm just too lazy to try and lose it! Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. I upsized hubby's pants two sizes for the three week honeymoon and made sure he had plenty of food close by at all times. I know it's not good for your health. What are you eating to gain? Your boyfriend's consistent remarks about being fat indicate that he feels uneasy about himself and may be looking for validation to feel better about himself, at least temporarily. Well, I really, really porked cuz I gains 88 pounds. I see it as lazy. Having a large amount of visceral fat in your body can cause various types of problems like , resistance to insulin leading to type 2 diabetes. Here is a picture of me when my wife fell in love with me: This is me and my wife now: Not every person is shallow. My wife of 25 years when we met she was 5'6" and 210 pounds which was why I was attracted to her. I ate so much, I still feel full a week later! I had always struggled to maintain even that weight, but he always was saying to eat as much as I want and not worry about my weight, so I did, and the pounds piled on in short order. Im really liking it. Plus he carries most of his weight in his tummy and face. My wife has always set goals, and as she gets closer to that goal, she bumps it higher. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. We all love to eat and we all love our fat and growing bodies as well. Dear Sugars, I've been with my boyfriend for more than two years. I'm trying really hard to back off and not try to influence him, but I'm dealing with the internal argument of how to tell him this. My youngest, who is 10, weighs 248 lbs, my middle daughter is 12 and 307 lbs, and my oldest is 14 and 382 lbs. The man I love has put on a little weight. Hi guys, how are you doing? I found out recently that many of his past girlfriends were plus-sized ladies from one of his friends - high school, college, etc. I want to learn some, Ive never been fatter and my wife has never been happier. How much have you gained? He calls it belly s**, but it usually leads to the real thing. My brothers wife weighed 160 pounds when they got married 2 years ago. When I'm with my married friends they speak about their husbands looks and weight in such a negative way. Dear E. Jean: I adore my boyfriend of six years. Her goal is now to continue gaining to 400! Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. As far as you know right now, hes worth it and the relationship is worth it. Well more and more breaks now as he loses his breath pretty easy now. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat . Sounds fantastic - are you mutually gaining? Master Age: 22. At the time I weighs somewhere around 265-275. Feeling that my pants dont fit anymore is a turn on. I can't even explain to you the last time my scale said that small of a number. Its not weird at all; many people actually find chubby spouses adorable instead of repulsive, thinking they resemble a cute little teddy bear, and cuddling with them at night would be extra comfortable. Im no longer physically attracted to him, and I feel horrible about it. I dont think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. In comparison to what he looked like before (~150 pounds on that frame) of course he looks fat, but now he seems average like any guy his height. It might be a temporary plumping but Ill take what I can get. The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. She needs a scooter to get around and our vehicle is a van with a handicap lift and she is fine with all of it. He will grow for you. He says not to worry, he loves my THICCCCC body. I'm willing to bet, though, that vary soon the real goal will be 400. Like him I've put on some weight to. We's got preggo 2 years ago when I's 400 an I put on about 85 pounds. Please, always consult with a Licensed P. or your Local Doctor for advice if you need to. Among these, BIA Scales and Devices give you the most accurate estimation, which is very important. Do employers care about a 2.2 after a few years? So glad to read this. I am around 400lb now and my husband loves me I've away been on big side . I was, too. 350 pounds is nice foundation weight. They seem to think how their husband's look is a reflection on them. I love him no matter what, his physique doesn't really matter for me or it does not affect how I fell for him. I can't say to her I told you so. I also love seeing successful people grow wider and wider. On the days that I need to be on the road, my mother-in-law helps out as my wife is growing too fat to take care of the kids and the house at the same time. I am now a massive 550 pounds. He loves to look after me . New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Scan this QR code to download the app now. That's a pretty dangerous road to go down. Id rather have a fat husband than no husband at all. Better s**, less arrogant and more relaxed.Just gotta keep having s** with them and keep giving them good food for an easy life. Not sure if I want to keep gaining because its just so foreign to me to not be in good shape. Ugh, I feel dirty and guilty for enjoying it so much and doing sneaky things to encourage him to consume more. It always becomes insanely Unhealthy. He certainly looks very well fed, a 360 pound man with a magnificent beachball belly that I love to rub. Lucky man . There is nothing you have to gain from telling your partner that theyve gained weight and that you arent as horny for them because of it. Is it hopeless? Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? 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